Absences & Scarcities

If you will be away from Ardent for an extended amount of time, or real life is just catching up and you'll be slower, please post here so that we have records of it, and other people may see what's going on. Fill out the form below and you're all set.

Having an absence notice here excuses you from having challenges made for your pack while you are gone (unless extenuating circumstances cause a consistent prolonging in your leave), and will also be excused from alpha activity checks for the week. However, this also means that if you are caught posting you will be removed from this list and expected to complete alpha activity checks as usual.

Having a scarcity notice up means that you are not excused from site activity checks, but must still meet alpha requirements as needed.

Make sure to edit your post here when you get back saying that the absence is no longer in effect or post in maintenance to have the post deleted.

To be clear. When on an absence, if you are caught posting from the start date of your absence or anywhere in between, until the end date of your absence, you will be removed from the absent list. Meaning, that if you are an Alpha, you will be expected to meet the Alpha requirements, and answer any challenges. Regular members will also be expected to answer any challenges made to them. Alphas may be excused from posting for 1 OOC week only and must have posted that absence by Wednesday on the week they want excused.

On a scarcity notice, Alphas are still required to meet the alpha requirements and answer any challenges. Regular members are also expected to answer any challenges.

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<b>Type:</b> Absence or scarcity?
<b>Name:</b>
<b>Characters:</b>
<b>Date leaving:</b>
<b>Date returning:</b>
<b>Why?:</b>

Just realized my last scarcity notice was removed so reposting and requesting this one stay up until such time that I ask for it to be removed.

Type: Scarcity
Name: Lolaf
Characters: All
Date leaving: Months ago
Date returning: Unknown
Why?: As stated prior, I'm just dealing with a lot of compounding issues. I do now have a positive ADHD diagnosis but it's still largely running rampant as my current medication is either not strong enough or doesn't work for me and I have exactly 0 coping mechanisms due to late diagnosis which means I am extremely at the mercy of my executive dysfunction, things like task initiation in particular are very difficult for me, I can have all the motivation in the world to do something I enjoy and yet there will be something making it impossible to translate the desire to do the thing into the action of doing the thing, this is as you can imagine, incredibly distressing and often exhausting if I try to push through the block for long periods of time. I'm also finding that my brain fog has been stronger lately. This on top of a still unknown mobility issue that causes regular pain means I'm under a decent amount of stress and currently there is no known finish line, due to the pace of testing medication and my own GPs schedule I'm often looking at months between consultations to try and fine tune any amount of treatment. I am doing my best to seek other help, including seeking ADHD coaching to help fill some gaps but again the process is long, stressful and made longer by my own brain's physical makeup.

As such the best thing I can do for myself right now is to learn to stop trying to fight my brain, to just accept that right now if I can't force myself to do something then it's okay to stop trying, and to let myself just do whatever it will let me guilt free. This means I'm likely to disappear for a week or two, return to post a little bit before disappearing again. I will be largely only be focusing on posting what I'm not struggling to post, which may mean some characters or threads get more attention than others right now because it's the thing currently giving my brain dopamine, with the exception of anything mandatory which I will do my best to still meet. As such I am still asking that people do not contact me about threads that are waiting on me unless I ask for reminders, as it just adds more stress, I promise I am already very aware of what I owe/what is stagnating. If you are waiting on something from my characters to keep yours moving please reach out to me instead of just making assumptions about them, I am very much willing to work things out in that regard and am just asking people be patient and considerate of my circumstance. Regular tagging (replies or new threads) is totally fine and helps me to keep tabs on threads for when I have some extra dopamine. If you wish to reclaim any of my adopted characters due to my inconsistent activity please I just ask that I be given a heads up about it, but do not blame anyone for doing so.

Type: Large Scarcity
Name: Chrono
Characters: I usually write them all but I don’t feel like it xD
Date leaving: many eons ago
Date returning: x
Why?:

On top of the many things going on, my dad had a stroke and fell off a 7 foot drop onto concrete. He is not doing well and probably won’t make it. We should know within the next few days.

Update: my dad transferred to hospice and has now passed after 2 weeks. It’s been a whirlwind. I wouldn’t expect much until I’m settled into my new place.

As is my laundry list of apartment shopping, packing, moving, finding health insurance, being a mom and all that.

I try to prioritize characters I have adopted from others, and want to keep up with regular activity checks if I can. From my last post I will let you know if I can’t make the checks or so

Type: Absence
Name: Indie
Characters: All of 'em
Date leaving: Today
Date returning: A few days I hope
Why?: Unforeseen circumstances- I don't want to elaborate. Anxiety is through the roof. Can't think about posts right now. My phone has been destroyed, I'll be difficult to get ahold of.

Type: Slow and Sporadic
Name: Lunarcat7
Characters: all
Date leaving: Now
Date returning: ??? 4-6 weeks to cure apparently
Why?:

Case of gamekeeper's thumb in my right hand and its splinted so I'm trying to do posts primarily with my left hand. I'm active but very slow and may start and stop posts sporadically. Kind of depends on my pain levels. Please bear with me, I want to get active again I just need a lot of breaks right now.

Type: scarcity but possibly absence
Name: Kingpedle
Characters: ummm a bunch
Date leaving: 09/23/24
Date returning: 10/03/24 maybe sooner it’s unknown
Why?:
Not a secret that I’m moving to my hometown but I wanted to touch base.
I’m really not doing okay, my life has flipped on its head and my world has been rapidly changing. I’ve received some rather disheartening news from some ex friends in my hometown and it’s really just kicked me to the curb. Real life is weighing me down, and I feel like since I used to be a not so great person, I’m not receiving the help I need.(fair but it hurts)

It’ll probably be fine! Once I’m in my hometown I can get probably help. I need therapy but that’s a whole nother thing in itself.
I’m terribly lonely but I just wanted to gloss over this everyone knows I can be spotty with posting but it is at the end of the day one of my coping mechanisms so I may end up having the energy to do phone posts at night on the trip. If anyone wants to chat please contact my discord, I love you guys, thanks.

Type: Absence
Name: Virgil
Characters: everyone
Date leaving: ??
Date returning: ??
Why?: life hasn't been kind for a while now, and at some point posting felt more like an obligation or chore than something I do for the love of the game.

I'll still be lurking and chatting in discord so feel free to hit me up, and please DM me if you need some kind of backstory or reason why my characters are absent, I'll do my best to respond asap :) love you!

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Type: scarcity
Name: seadragoness
Characters: all
Date leaving: now
Date returning: end of year?
Why?: money's tight right now. Trying to get 6 day work weeks until the end of the year. Time, energy, and mood will be low, but I'll still be around <3

Type: scarcity
Name: Dragon
Characters: All
Date leaving: scarce a week or two ago
Date returning: still here just slow af right now
Why?: Still posting, just throwing this here so y'all know why I've been so slow. Spent all last week sick, still kinda am. Will be in San Diego visiting my family for the rest of the week while Preston & Ember are in Maine so I'm not home alone. I'll likely be posting when i can at the end of the day, though also depends how I feel. I've been physically drained and in constant pain walking, and when I end up doing too much etc, my body has not been kind to me lately especially with my due date being in a few weeks. Appointments, getting the place ready for baby etc. I know I've been lagging with ardent things so just poke me/send me thread links via dm or lmk what threads I can start. Been pretty scatterbrained lately too with scroll of things I gotta do irl, so I've been forgetful with ardent stuff as of late.

Thanks for understanding <3

Type: Scarcity Update
Name: Hermes
Characters: Andromeda, Athena, Calico Jack, Coho, Enki, Ezekiel, Gruesome, Haydée, Jericho, Kore, Malico, Merlin, Ricin, Seere, Sorcerer, Strix, Unagi, Wade, Zenith, Zion
Date leaving: Been scarce since May
Date returning: Here just super, duper slow
Why?: Lots of big changes have happened this past year and, every time I thought I was getting back on solid ground, the rug was pulled out from under me. Still searching for a place to move to, still trying to figure things out. If you need me, my DMs are open and please, please poke me for tags! My memory is so full of holes right now (thanks trauma brain).

Type: Leaving
Name: Beau-tifullyWritten
Characters: All
Date leaving: Now
Date returning: --
Why?: --