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06-14-2013, 10:19 AM
(This post was last modified: 06-14-2013, 10:21 AM by Epiphron.)
I am a bit biased because, truthfully, I usually like to be left (fairly) alone while on Ala -- so I never feel ignored or unwanted, b/c I have social anxiety even on the internet lol and really don't like lots of attention -- but I'm truly sorry if people feel offended or upset by recent events.
While I totally understand and empathize, I also wanted members (not admins/mods) to know that... at least for me personally... when I come sit down on Alacritis at night, I have a hard time following the Cbox and talking to people. Because I usually have 5+ tabs open, doing admin stuff, replying to posts, talking on Skype, and so on. I think a lot of staff can relate -- but I understand how it must seem from a different standpoint, like we're purposefully ignoring you.
I've noticed a lot of bad attitude lately regarding this, and also bad responses from admins. Members who feel alienated, often continue by ACTING like they are alienated, i.e. making snarky comments about being ignored, being testy -- and I personally am much less likely to talk to members who act like this. I don't deal well with passive aggressive people, and would much rather people just be upfront with what their issues are and with whom.
Also, please realize we do our best here. I don't personally see 'cliques.' But again, I'm biased -- I only regularly (daily-ish) talk to Andy on Skype, and I consider her a pretty good friend. I'll talk to whoever messages me, but I don't talk to any member daily on anything other than the Cbox.
Alacritis is no different than real life. You will not be liked by everyone. Not everyone will like your writing style and want to roleplay with you. And it sucks, but you know what? That's fine, because I'm sure you don't want to play with some people either. We're all biased, and all have flaws -- but we're doing our best at admins to monitor this and promptly take care of anyone being openly rude or mean. If you have an issue, do not, WE BEG, start fights on the Cbox. I am more than happy to deal with these things in private via skype or PM. If you're more comfortable talking to another admin -- feel free!
But, please give more suggestions as to what we can do to make Ala more pleasant for everyone.
While I totally understand and empathize, I also wanted members (not admins/mods) to know that... at least for me personally... when I come sit down on Alacritis at night, I have a hard time following the Cbox and talking to people. Because I usually have 5+ tabs open, doing admin stuff, replying to posts, talking on Skype, and so on. I think a lot of staff can relate -- but I understand how it must seem from a different standpoint, like we're purposefully ignoring you.
I've noticed a lot of bad attitude lately regarding this, and also bad responses from admins. Members who feel alienated, often continue by ACTING like they are alienated, i.e. making snarky comments about being ignored, being testy -- and I personally am much less likely to talk to members who act like this. I don't deal well with passive aggressive people, and would much rather people just be upfront with what their issues are and with whom.
Also, please realize we do our best here. I don't personally see 'cliques.' But again, I'm biased -- I only regularly (daily-ish) talk to Andy on Skype, and I consider her a pretty good friend. I'll talk to whoever messages me, but I don't talk to any member daily on anything other than the Cbox.
Alacritis is no different than real life. You will not be liked by everyone. Not everyone will like your writing style and want to roleplay with you. And it sucks, but you know what? That's fine, because I'm sure you don't want to play with some people either. We're all biased, and all have flaws -- but we're doing our best at admins to monitor this and promptly take care of anyone being openly rude or mean. If you have an issue, do not, WE BEG, start fights on the Cbox. I am more than happy to deal with these things in private via skype or PM. If you're more comfortable talking to another admin -- feel free!
But, please give more suggestions as to what we can do to make Ala more pleasant for everyone.
