Site-Wide Discussion
06-15-2013, 01:20 PM
Personally, I don?t really see much of the ?ignored? problem. However, if this ignoring thing is really going on, just remember that it takes two. (or more) It takes one person to ignore and the other to allow it. No relationship works with just one person catering to the whims of another, and a successful friendship is the same. So if you?re feeling ignored, is it really that hard to say something to the person that you feel is ignoring you? Or talk to a staff member about it?
No one here is blatantly cruel, and I know no one means to ignore people, but you have to remember that the chat-box moves wickedly fast. It?s easy to get lost in the sea of messages coming in. Example, right now there are ?16 users? online. If all 16 of us are talking, it?d be easy for a message to get missed. I know I?ve only be back at Ala for like a month and half, but, this site has never been cliquey. The only way I can see where you might get that idea, is the repor that has been built up with the members that have known each other longer or outside of Alacritis.
I feel that if would be helpful if the people who have this issue, would talk about the issues to the people they?re having it with or a staff member, rather than skirting around the idea and making it a bigger deal that it is. Communication is key in any relationship.
That?s what the Roamer thinks, and Roamer doesn't want to offend anyone. So if I do, please tell me. <3