i don't know how it got this way

Itzal would probably get along well with either Mammon or Nabis.

Mammon's a flirt and she likes wolves who are a bit more off the wall, especially if they are darker. She might push a bit with her flirting but she'd also not be too offended if he rebuffed her.

Nabis is my ambitious boy, he's always on the hunt for new girls for his harem and guys who would be interested in becoming followers of him and his brother. He's a bit of a charmer with a dark side and he'd probably find Itzal amusing enough to try to befriend him.